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We tend to pay so much of our attention to the feminine gender because they are known to be the weaker vessels, vulnerable and easily bullied, harassed or molested by the men.

This is undoubtedly true, but we have given so much attention to them such that we forget that the other gender  are equally prone to harassment or molestation by their opposite sex.

It should be noted that this writing is not to support any form of bullying of the female gender, but we shall be giving much of our attention to the traumas men go through after being physically, emotionally and mentally distressed by the said "weaker vessels" yet no one cares to pay attention to them because "they are men".

It saddens my heart when a woman complains or posts about domestic violence, molestation or any form of harassment and gets quick attention and due judgment and punishment for the culprit.

But a man complains of the same thing and all he gets is laughter or mockery from the society because people do not believe that a man can be traumatized by a woman. 

Everyday, women come out to social media and tell tales of how they were raped. Rape cases of course are very serious cases that shouldn't be overlooked. In one way or another, the culprits are brought to order and given their befitting punishments.

But, if a man comes out and tells the society he was raped by a woman, of course, no one will believe him no matter how convincing he may sound, just like you don't right now. This is why you rarely hear a man speaking up or admitting to have been raped.

It is believed that males, even younger males, cannot be victims of rape, nor even that they are vulnerable. In some societies, it is considered shameful and unmanly if a male child cries, because the male stereotype depicts males as being able to protect themselves, which may not always be the case.

This is why it may be difficult for male victims to report a sexual assault  they experienced, especially in a society with a strong masculine custom. 

They might be afraid that people will doubt their sexual orientation and label them homosexual, or that they may be seen as un-masculine because they were a victim.

"The Other Gender" isn't only concerned about sexual assault of the male gender, it covers all the angles of the different traumas men go through as a result of the negative treatments they get from the female gender.

It is to let the society know that just as a woman can be traumatized by a man, a man can equally be traumatized by a woman.

It is a platform where the male gender is permitted to speak up on any kind of abuse (physically, mentally, emotionally and otherwise) he has experienced.
A solution and corrections would definitely be provided.

A lot of real life stories will be shared soon so you'd know that a man who you feel should be protecting you every time also needs to be protected.

Note that every story you will be reading regarding "The Other Gender" are true life stories, hence you should be mindful of your choice of words when commenting or making any kind of suggestion.

For any male who wants to drop his  experience(s), please feel free to send me a message, I won't hesitate to respond and repost it for you as soon as I get it. Your name and identity will be withheld.

Stay tuned.